For the first time in your life, you’ve successfully planned the whole surprise breakfast in bed with trumpets and all, you even remembered to include a picture frame and pillow.
That’s so 2020!
Giving a thoughtful and international gift has everything to do with how well you know your partner.
If you’ve been, married for years, you know her pretty well. However, If you’ve been together for a few months, you have a lot to learn. You might be stumped on what kind of gift will hit the jackpot without being overly cheesy.
Let me help you think outside the box this year with these unique Valentine’s Day gifts for her.
We’re aiming for thoughtful and intentional gift ideas that will definitely make her feel the love on Valentine’s Day and beyond.
You can use this to find the perfect valentine’s day gift for your wife, girlfriend, mom, sister, basically any woman/girl in your life.
1. MONEY GIFT
As you already know, women love money and we love it even better when it’s coming from the men in our lives.
In simple terms, we love spending your money.
Hand over the debit card your Royal Imperial Majesty.
2. BONE STRAIGHT WEAVE
Remember you didn’t buy that hair she wanted for Christmas, she has not forgotten. Any type of weave will do just fine.
3. BOOK A MICROBLADING / SEMI-PERMANENT LASH SESSION
It’s the in-thing this season, if this is something she likes, book her an appointment to get her brows filled in and lashes fixed. Trust me, you’ll love it too.
4. SKINCARE PRODUCTS
Skin is in. With the craze of skincare routines and getting the perfect skin, it won’t hurt to get products from her favorite skincare brands.
Don’t be too obvious, check the bathroom or nightstand, she definitely has them on display, surprise her with a new set.
I recommend products from Arami Essentials, Nivea, Pixi Beauty.
5. MAKEUP PRODUCTS
For makeup lovers. A girl can never have too many makeup products.
Take an extra effort to casually ask what makeup products she needs. She’s probably dying to get her hands on the latest makeup products. When you get the information, shop for her.
6. MONTHLY SUBSCRIPTION GIFT BOX
Subscription boxes are not so popular in this region but we have a few amazing brands that offer this.
Imagine your girl getting a themed box full of beauty products, and exciting gifts every month.
Tell me about the anticipation and excitement on her face.
7. MASTER CLASSES / COURSES
There are lots of master classes out there and trust me, your girl may have been saving up for one or two. Casually ask which of them she’s interested in and surprise her.
8. LANDED PROPERTIES
Haha, had to slide this in here. Landed property is the new gold mine. Add an extra feather to her hat with this gift and watch her glow with pride. #madamlandowner
9. STOCKS
Another gold mine. Please get this if it’s something she’s interested in. You don’t want to waste your money if she has no interest in stocks. But, it won’t hurt schooling her on the subject.
10. BITCOINS
This has been banned in my country Nigeria!. If you’re outside the region, this can be a good investment. And again, she should have an idea of Bitcoin to appreciate your gift.
11. GADGETS
If your girl is in the tech space or the creative space e.g bloggers, makeup artists, bakers, vloggers, writers, photographers, social media managers, etc. Upgrading her gadgets or gadget gifting would be a game-changer. And again, you can casually ask for what she needs.
You may not be a fan of romance but you can be the guy who gets his girl the best gadgets of the year. Hallelujah!
12. PERSONALIZED JEWELRY
Have her name, nickname, or write a short but sweet handwritten phrase and have it made into a gold or silver pair of earrings, necklace, or bracelet. Take it a notch by having a personalized matching set.
Bonus point: she gets to wear them for as long as she wants
13. SCENTED CANDLES
Don’t show up empty-handed to the dinner table. Enjoy the romantic dinner she prepared by lighting up scented candles coupled with a relaxing bath after. Show me a more romantic gift.
14. THE RING
Thinking of popping the question? this could be a good time or maybe not. Who knows
15. INVEST IN HER BUSINESS
If you have not been doing this (why not?), here is your reminder. Women love when the men in their lives support their businesses. May be a business upgrade, paying off shipping cost, business trip, etc.
16. QUALITY TIME
Be honest, when was the last time you had an in-house dinner, just the two of you or cuddled up on the couch together watching Malcom & Marie, Bridgerton, The Avengers, and eating popcorn?
You don’t watch movies!!
Ok Ok, a couples card game or Conversation Cards for Couples to Connect and Improve Communication, from casual conversations to break the ice to deep and important topics. Spend time talking about everything and anything with your partner.
17. GIFT CARDS
A girls love after money, some fashion and beauty brands offer gift card options. This will help her shop for whatever she wants. Plus she gets to use it anytime.
18. NEW PLANT
Is she a plant mom? Did one of her plants die last week?
How thoughtful it would be if you could gift her a new plant or vase (amazing idea! I know right)
19. A PET
Has she’s been gushing over puppy or cat pictures online or mentioned getting a pet. She will definitely love this surprise.
20. HOME DECOR
A good idea for interior home lovers. You could get a hand made shelf for her books or the bathroom. Watch her do her magic.
That shirt she’s been eyeing in your wardrobe
Get a matching set. It’s in the little things.
Ladies, most of your men are genuinely clueless about these things, don’t stress him out so much because of that.
Instead, help him by telling him things you like, whispering a few ideas into his ears, suggesting what you like when you’re out.
Put the ideas in his head woman!
The next time he’s out and see’s something you mentioned, he’ll definitely remember, thinking he thought of It himself.
(I’m not a relationship coach but I heard this works) *wink
I hope you saw something you like from the list?
JUMMY DEFILA 
Can we all just take a moment to appreciate how lovely and apt this post is 👏🏽?
I Stan JD’s blog abeg ❤️.
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Omg babes!!! you spoil me too to tears . Thank you so much for stopping by 😘
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